People often focus on physical appearance, but the most unattractive qualities in a partner are actually personality traits. We surveyed people about their least favorite characteristics and found common themes. Here are some of the top-rated dealbreakers:
- Lack of empathy: Being self-centered and ignoring others’ feelings.
- Drama: Gossiping and creating conflict.
- Shallowness: Prioritizing superficial things over deeper connections.
- Games: Playing hard to get or manipulating others.
- Insecurity: Lack of trust and self-doubt.
- Competitiveness: Always trying to one-up others.
- Negativity: A pessimistic outlook on life.
- Egotism: Constant bragging and self-importance.
- Elitism: Acting superior based on wealth or status.
These traits were mentioned repeatedly by both men and women.