Divorce often stems from subtle issues that build up over time. Experts identify several “silent killers” commonly found in relationships headed for divorce.
- Conflict Avoidance: Avoiding conflict prevents necessary resolution, allowing negative feelings to fester.
- Invalidating Emotions: Dismissing your partner’s feelings, even unintentionally, can create feelings of disconnection.
- Unresolved Trauma: Past trauma can trigger insecurities, causing strain on the relationship if left untreated.
- Resentment: Unhealed resentments lead to passive aggression and hinder open communication.
- White Lies About Money: Financial dishonesty can erode trust and fuel conflict.
- Stonewalling: Withdrawing during arguments shuts down communication and prevents problem-solving.
- Change: As couples grow, differences may emerge, leading to a disconnect.
Recognizing these subtle signs early can help prevent a relationship from unraveling.
