When we share our lives online, we open ourselves up to judgment. This young couple has faced negative reactions for sharing photos of themselves online. However, their response to the criticism is clever and serves as a powerful lesson on standing firm in one’s convictions.
Matt and Brittany Montgomery’s story is a testament to love and resilience. They found each other, fell in love, and began building a life together. Their relationship may seem familiar, but it comes with a twist: Brittany is a plus-size woman, and Matt is much larger than her.
Brittany has struggled all her life to feel like she belongs. With overbearing parents, she often felt depleted and began to dislike her physique. She encountered two types of men: those who wanted her to lose weight and those who found her curves sexually alluring. Her dismal luck in relationships led her to consider giving up on love entirely.
But destiny had other plans. In August 2020, Brittany met Matt Montgomery online. Despite their physical differences, their spirits were bound together. Brittany was initially hesitant due to her past experiences with men who pressured her to lose weight. But Matt’s love and acceptance changed everything.
After Matt proposed on January 30, 2022, the couple began planning their future together. They are completely at ease with one another, despite outside perceptions of their relationship. Matt addresses the criticism on social media with grace and confidence. “People comment on Instagram and suggest that I’m not big enough or man enough for her,” he said. “I do notice people staring when we walk down the street…”
Their love for each other is unwavering, and they don’t let critics affect their relationship. Matt’s past interactions with women of “normal” size didn’t go well, but Brittany makes him feel like she is his soulmate. He loves her for who she is and works hard to ensure her happiness. He recently expressed his affection publicly, saying, “You are worthy, you are deserving of infinite love every single day and more. The way I look at you and feel for you and the way you look and feel for me is how I know that we are meant to be.”
The couple’s efforts to normalize relationships between people of different sizes are inspiring. Brittany hopes that “mixed-weight relationships become more common and accepted.” Last month, the couple announced they are expecting their second child, Lakelyn, in September 2023.
Their story reminds us that finding real love and happiness has no set rules. No matter what, we should all find ways to embrace and love one another.